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When Love Fades: An Honest Look at Do Aur Do Pyaar

29.07.2024 | Bhaswati Roy

"Do Aur Do Pyaar" marks the return of Vidya Balan to the silver screen, and her portrayal of Kavya is nothing short of exceptional. This film, directed by debutant Shirsha Guha Thakurta, also features the ever-improving Pratik Gandhi as Ani. Together, they bring to life a nuanced story about a couple in a love marriage that has gone stale over the years.
 
The film opens with Kavya and Ani living parallel lives within the same home. Once deeply in love, their conversations now barely extend beyond mundane formalities. The narrative explores their silent suffering and the complexity of their emotions, as they both seek solace in extramarital affairs. Despite the encouragement from their new lovers, neither Kavya nor Ani initiates a breakup, symbolizing their deep-seated hesitation and confusion.
 
This scenario is strikingly real for many couples today. The portrayal of a marriage devoid of conflict, yet full of indifference, is a powerful reminder that relationships require ongoing effort and communication. The turning point comes with a family death that forces Ani to accompany Kavya to her childhood home. This trip rekindles their old love, but it also throws them into turmoil with their new relationships, highlighting the messy, complicated nature of love and commitment.
 
Vidya Balan's return as Kavya is a highlight. Her performance captures the essence of a woman struggling between her past and present, making her character deeply relatable, especially for women who share complicated relationships with their fathers. The scenes where Kavya confronts her father are raw and authentic, depicting the flawed dynamics of a family where both parties are right and wrong in their ways. The unresolved tension between Kavya and her father mirrors real-life relationships where not everything is black and white.
 
Pratik Gandhi, as Ani, complements Vidya's performance with his portrayal of a man caught between duty and desire. His chemistry with Vidya is palpable, adding depth to their characters' troubled relationship. Their interactions, filled with unspoken words and simmering tensions, make the audience reflect on their own relationships.
 
One of the movie's most powerful moments is when Kavya and Ani discover each other's affairs. Contrary to the expected mature conversation, they react with anger and hurt, reflecting a very human response to betrayal. This scene is particularly noteworthy for its realism. It shows that even though both characters are morally flawed, their reactions are genuine, highlighting the imperfections inherent in all humans.
 
The film's portrayal of modern relationships might not resonate with everyone. For instance, older generations, like my father, found the movie's themes unsettling and indicative of moral decay in today's society. However, as someone in my mid-twenties, I found it highly relevant and reflective of the challenges faced by contemporary couples. This generational divide underscores the evolving nature of societal norms and the different lenses through which relationships are viewed.
 
Shirsha Guha Thakurta's direction brings a fresh perspective to the genre. The film avoids melodrama, instead opting for subtle, intimate storytelling. Small details, such as the characters calling each other by their surnames and the inclusion of cultural elements like Tamil phrases and Bengali dishes, add authenticity and personal touch to the narrative.
 
The movie underscores that maintaining a relationship, especially a marriage, requires more than just love. It demands respect, adjustment, and continuous communication. The film’s message is clear: love is not just about grand gestures but also about everyday efforts to understand and support each other.
 
The soundtrack of "Do Aur Do Pyaar" is another standout feature, with contributions from artists like Lost Stories, The Local Train, and When Chai Met Toast. Lucky Ali's return with the song "Tu Hain Kahaan" adds a nostalgic touch, complementing the film's emotional depth.
 
"Do Aur Do Pyaar" is a beautifully crafted film that delves into the intricacies of modern relationships. While it may not appeal to everyone, it offers a realistic portrayal of love, commitment, and the challenges of maintaining a relationship. For those willing to engage with its themes, it is a relatable and thought-provoking watch.
 
Do Aur Do Pyar isn't a perfect film.  Certain aspects might leave you wanting more. But its exploration of love, loss, and the complexities of marriage is undeniably thought-provoking.  
Whether you agree with the characters' choices or not, the film's honesty and willingness to delve into uncomfortable truths make it a must-watch. So, if you've ever been in love or wondered how couples stay together, this movie is worth a watch.
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